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🧠 How UFC Fighters Build Mental Armor (And How You Can Too)
🧠 The mental game plan behind UFC success—how one coach featured on Joe Rogan rewires fighters (and you) to perform under pressure.
Brandon Epstein doesn’t sell hype—he builds habits. As the mental performance coach behind top UFC fighters, his job is to help athletes show up under pressure, on purpose.
Here’s what he actually does with his clients—and how you can do the same to level up your life, even if you’re not fighting in a cage. He explained all this on more on the Joe Rogan Experience #2364.
⏰ Start with a Simple Alarm
He makes clients set a daily alarm that says:
“Who are you becoming?”
It’s not motivational—it’s tactical.
The alarm is timed to hit when you’re likely to slip into autopilot (Epstein uses 4 PM). It reminds you: every choice you make reinforces an identity. Are you aligning with the person you're trying to become—or betraying them?
Steal this: Set that alarm. Let it interrupt your excuses.
❓ Ask Better Questions
Brandon gives fighters a short list of questions to ask throughout the day. These aren’t woo-woo affirmations—they’re weapons. Tools to snap out of anxiety, fear, and distraction.
“What would the highest version of me do right now?”
“What’s the most courageous action I can take?”
“Am I being reactive, or intentional?”
He has clients practice asking these. Like reps. Because under pressure, you don’t rise to the occasion—you fall to the level of your training.
😤 Master Your State First, Then Act
Fighters don’t wait to feel confident. Brandon teaches them to shift their state on demand using breathwork, posture, and movement. It’s the opposite of waiting for motivation.
“Control your state, then take aligned action.”
That’s a core principle. Whether it’s stepping into the octagon or into a hard conversation, your nervous system has to feel safe enough to act with clarity.
Try this:
Physiological sigh (2 inhales, 1 long exhale) to calm down fast
Movement trigger (stand tall, shake out tension, then step forward)
🧱 Build Identity Through Repetition
Epstein doesn’t try to fix people—he helps them practice becoming the version of themselves they already know they want to be. He calls it building an operating system.
That means choosing one or two identity-based habits and doing them daily until they become automatic.
Want to be a calm person? Practice calm under stress.
Want to be consistent? Show up when it’s boring.
🧪 Small Experiments > Big Overhauls
He’s not trying to change lives overnight.
He guides fighters to test one variable at a time. Shift a habit. Reframe a belief. Tweak the inner dialogue. Then track what happens.
The point is evolution, not revolution.
🦴 What Your Injuries Might Be Telling You
One of Brandon’s more unconventional (but insightful) tools: when a client gets injured, he asks them to consult an AI or resource to explore the spiritual or emotional meaning of that injury.
“Ask what that body part represents emotionally. What’s this injury trying to teach you?”
This doesn’t replace physical rehab—but it adds a layer of awareness. Are you carrying fear? Avoiding something hard? Are you off track from your purpose?
The injury might be feedback—not just physical, but energetic.
🧰 Tools of the Trade: How Epstein Rewires the Mind
Brandon brings in a wide range of modalities depending on the client’s needs. He isn’t dogmatic—he’s pragmatic. If it works, he’ll use it. Some tools he frequently draws from include:
Hypnosis – to reprogram patterns buried in the subconscious
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) – to shift mental associations and inner dialogue
Somatic processing – to release stored tension or trauma from the body
Visualization – to rehearse successful outcomes in advance
Breathwork – to regulate the nervous system and access different mental states
AI tools and books – to find insight, reflection, or symbolic meaning, especially during setbacks or injuries
This toolbox isn’t about adding complexity—it’s about choosing the right lever at the right moment to move forward.
TL;DR
Set an alarm: “Who are you becoming?”
Ask identity-anchoring questions throughout your day
Control your state before taking action
Build your identity one behavior at a time
Run small experiments. Watch what shifts.
Reflect on injuries as potential messages—not just setbacks
Explore hypnosis, NLP, breathwork, and other tools to support change
You don’t need more motivation. You need better reps.
Brandon Epstein gives fighters the mental operating system to win under pressure. Now you’ve got the blueprint from his book The Success Code.
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